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Whether you're gifting a vibrator to your bestie or a sexy lingerie outfit to your partner (whether you wear it or they do, *wink*), there's no shame in a sexy gift. Dare we say, an orgasm is the best gift you can give. We've compiled the best options that feel less weird and more spicy.

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Alison Cochrun
This book, about a star on a TV show similar to “The Bachelor” who falls for his male producer, is perfect for a friend who loves a steamy romance to cuddle up with.
LGBTQIA+
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VELLA
Apply this frequently sold-out serum 10 minutes before sex or masturbating for the best orgasm of your life—believe us. Fun fact: it was created by the same scientist who helped develop Viagra.
Love Honey
Spark a little fun in the bedroom with this dice set that will encourage you and partner to turn a quiet night in to a party for two.
LGBTQIA+
INITIATIVES
Savage X Fenty
Encouraging women of all sizes to feel sexy is basically Rihanna’s name, and her lingerie line (filled with teddies, bra and panty sets, babydolls, and more) are sure to make you look and feel fire.
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
SUSTAINABLE
BUSINESS
Womanizer
Buy this for your best friend, your sister, your work wife, your sister-in-law, your neighbor, your partner's mom—because they're all going to thank you endlessly after the intense orgasms they get from this oral-sex-simulator vibrator.
Unbound Babes
Get this set of spicy truth or dare playing cards for your partner, and you’ll never be questioning, “What should we do tonight?” again.
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
DIPSEA
Give your BFF the gift of getting to listen to the sexiest voices on repeat with this erotic audios app our editors swear by.
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
Amazon
Remind your partner that sex doesn't have to get stale. These playing cards have 365 new sex positions to try—whether you're a gymnast or more of a pillow prince(ess).
Uncommon Goods | Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding
Let's talk about sex, baby. This journal helps couples verbalize their greatest desires, fantasies, and feelings about sex—without all the weirdness of a full conversation.
SUSTAINABLE
BUSINESS
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
Province Apothecary
Containing two sexy massage oils perfect for a cozy night in, pair this gift with a ticket for an at-home massage for a gift that will have them excited for bedtime.
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BUSINESS
WOMEN-OWNED
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We-Vibe
A rabbit vibrator is a must-have in any toy collection, and this is the one to beat. Two motors stimulate the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, flexing to fit your body however you use it.
Moon Juice
For the wellness guru who knows a healthy sex life makes them more powerful, this adaptogenic blend of herbs you can put into your coffee or tea will make you feel more relaxed, aroused, and creative.
SMALL
BUSINESS
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
EXSENS Paris
Can you imagine bringing this arousing, sexy gloss to your next dinner date? Hot, hot, hot.
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
Maude
Containing travel-sized lube and two condoms, this is the perfect kit to stash in your bag on road trips or a weekend away with your partner. Add this onto a hotel or airfare gift card, and you've got the makings of the perfect gift.
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WOMEN-OWNED
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Joanna Gray
For the intellectual of your crew, give them the gift of spice and learning. This book dives deep into attraction, Kama Sutra, and other tips and tricks to make you feel like a sex pro (both in the books and the sheets).
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
WOMEN
AUTHOR
Verishop
Printed on faux matchsticks, this box contains 50 steamy prompts to reignite your passion and add that extra spark back to your sex life. (All while looking pretty damn cute on your coffee table.)
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
Sunday Riley
Not only is this chic candle the perfect bedside table treat, it's a warm, body-safe wax that turns into a massage oil as it burns. Oh, and it smells like honey, vanilla, and sandalwood.
ECO-FRIENDLY
PRODUCT
Love Honey
The perfect stocking stuffer to your lover's gift, these scratch-off lottery-esque cards have a slew of flirty activities that range from "just hands" to "sex from behind."
LGBTQ+
INITIATIVES
Nox
With pain comes pleasure, right? These candles are made of body-safe wax to help you engage in temperature play.
SMALL
BUSINESS
Enby
This cherry-flavored cream adds a tingly sensation to your nipples, turning up the notch on your basic foreplay, all while looking ultra-discrete.
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LGBTQ+-OWNED
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Dame
If you keep this cute, water-based lube on your nightstand, we guarantee no one will know what it is... you know, unless they have it too.
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
Parade
You don't have to be uncomfortable to look sexy. Parade's bralettes tow the line between cute and comfy beautifully, coming in nine colors and going to a size 40DDD.
BIPOC-OWNED
BUSINESS
ECO-FRIENDLY
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Unbound
Aptly named the "vibe vault," this will give its recipient a real place to keep their toys (instead of their nightstand or inside a random box in the back of their closet), complete with pockets for chargers and a zip closure.
WOMEN-OWNED
BUSINESS
Bawdy Beauty
A lip balm for your nips—this is ideal for nourishing and hydrating every day, to avoid chafing, and after pregnancy, but we can't deny how good it feels after sex.
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