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50+ Gifts For Your Coastal Grandma Friend Who Belongs in a Nancy Meyers Movie

written by ALLYSON TRAMMELL

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50+ Gifts For Your Coastal Grandma Friend Who Belongs in a Nancy Meyers Movie
50+ Gifts For Your Coastal Grandma Friend Who Belongs in a Nancy Meyers Movie

Ever since I watched Diane Keaton sob hysterically in Something’s Gotta Give, I felt an instant connection to her character—my cinematic soul sister. So when the “Coastal Grandma” aesthetic went viral a few years ago, I felt absolutely thrilled. In my humble opinion, it’s the ultimate style. It strikes the perfect balance between elevated and cozy, offering a timeless and classic aesthetic while feeling lived-in and full of character.

If you haven’t watched every Nancy Meyers film enough to recite them line by line, let me introduce you to Coastal Grandmas: the ladies who adore anything blue and white, savor a cup of tea with a good book on cozy Friday nights, and know the names of the farmers at their local market. Whether she’s your actual grandmother or just a friend who embodies that nurturing spirit, she deserves a gift that reflects the calm and wholesome romanticism she exudes. I’ve curated this selection of items—many from my own wish list—perfect for celebrating her unique charm.

Embracing the essence of “Coastal Grandma” style means celebrating a lifestyle that’s all about relaxed elegance, timeless charm, and a deep appreciation for the simple joys of life. Picture sun-soaked days spent at the beach, leisurely brunches, and cozy evenings with overflowing wine glasses and laughter among friends and family.

From quilted jackets to raffia wine holders, this list is chock-full of coastal grandma gifts that will make her little Diane Keaton-loving heart sing. Each item on this gift list reflects the charm and beauty of effortlessly curated coastal living. With thoughtful, unique pieces that blend functionality with elegance, you’re sure to find the perfect gift that gives Nancy Meyers energy. Cue the nostalgia and go ahead and turn on Father of The Bride while you browse the best coastal grandma gifts.

Want even more gifts? Check out our complete holiday gift guide with over 600 affordable gifts for everyone on your list.

Quick Picks

Salty Weekend Crewneck
The Everygirl Shop
Salty Weekend Crewneck

Who is she if she’s not always by the water? For the Everygirl already planning her next coastal getaway, this sweatshirt is the perfect gift to give this season. Bonus: it’s also ultra comfy.

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Drawstring PJ Pants
Free People
Drawstring PJ Pants

The uniform for slow mornings, a good book, and coffee on the porch. These PJ pants are made from a soft cotton blend and come in several fun colors. This floral stripe print feels like a summer cottage, even in December.

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Apres Sea Needlepoint Canvas
Pine Harbor
Apres Sea Needlepoint Canvas

Her new favorite way to spend a Sunday. This beachy 4×4-inch needlepoint canvas comes stitch-printed with bound edges and a tapestry needle included. She can throw on a comfort show and start stitching.

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Gingham Deluxe Bedding Bundle
Quince
Gingham Deluxe Bedding Bundle

These beautiful sheets make the perfect gift, turning an everyday essential into a little luxury. The subtle, cozy pattern adds a thoughtful touch, making them a gift they’ll truly treasure.

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Scalloped Wicker Tray
Target | Threshold™
Scalloped Wicker Tray

This sturdy tray can tote napkins and silverware for dinner parties or be used for coffee table decor with shells, candles, and botanicals.

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Watercolor Workbook
Emily Lex Studio
Watercolor Workbook

This Watercolor Workbook offers a relaxing and creative way to bring vibrant garden scenes to life. With easy-to-follow instructions, it’s perfect for beginners and seasoned artists alike. Pair it with a bottle of wine and you have a fantastic night.

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Monogram Pottery Mug
Sézane
Monogram Pottery Mug

Besides being absolutely stunning, this hand-painted mug from Sézane will be the coffee-time essential that’ll take them through winter, into summer, and back around again. Plus, this product comes in the most chic box with a bow, making it the easiest gift-wrapping situation ever.

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Plated Oyster Ornament
Carlyle Avenue
Plated Oyster Ornament

Equal parts East Coaster and kitschy Christmas, this tasteful trinket proves even ornaments can have great style.

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Twill Workwear Jacket
Abercrombie & Fitch
Twill Workwear Jacket

This classic workwear jacket offers timeless style and durable comfort. With its quilted lining and versatile design, it’s the perfect layer for casual outings or outdoor adventures.

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Blanche Picture Frame
McGee & Co.
Blanche Picture Frame

Pop a memorable photo into this frame for an easy gift that’s both beautiful and meaningful.

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Flush Balm
Merit
Flush Balm

The coastal grandma vibe is all about effortless beauty, and this cheek balm is a must-have staple. Use it as a natural flush on your cheeks or a glossy hint on your lips for a subtle, glowing look.

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Ribbed Wine Glass
Target | Threshold
Ribbed Wine Glass

The ribbed detailing on these stunning wine glasses gives them a luxe, high-end look—no one would ever guess they’re just $8.

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Personalized Linen Cocktail Napkins
Etsy | House of Gleason
Personalized Linen Cocktail Napkins

If she’s the queen of hospitality, she will adore these luxuriously crafted napkins.

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Striped Sweater
Quince
Striped Sweater

This navy striped sweater combines classic with a cozy, timeless silhouette. It’s the perfect layering piece to bring a touch of seaside charm to any outfit.

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Market Boat Tote
The Everygirl Shop
Market Boat Tote

Take this tote wherever life takes you. From the farmers’ market to the bookstore, its heavyweight cotton design easily carries all your essentials and looks stunningly effortless while doing so.

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Stripe Mahjong Mat
The Everygirl Shop
Stripe Mahjong Mat

A little upgrade for your weekly mahjong game night. This mat comes in two colors (blue and pink) and has a stitched non-slip backing that makes it an expert at gameplay. A great pick for the game night host in your life.

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Tank Style Watch
Olivia Burton
Tank Style Watch

The timeless design of this watch makes it look way more expensive than it is. The perfect everyday staple to stack or mix with other metals for that effortlessly curated look.

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READ: 12 Coastal Grandma Hobbies That’ll Have You Feeling Like Nancy Meyers Herself

Block Print Quilt
Etsy | Archana Living
Block Print Quilt

Picture this: a cozy night in with your favorite Nancy Meyers movie, wrapped up in this beautiful quilt. It’s the kind of throw that looks just as stunning draped over the couch as it feels snuggled around you.

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Salt Scalloped Jar Candle
Target | Hearth & Hand with Magnolia
Salt Scalloped Jar Candle

The refreshing fragrance of this candle will add levity to any home. When the wax is melted down, the stone bowl is beautiful enough to be reused anywhere in their home.

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Glazed Stoneware Salt Cellar
McGee & Co.
Glazed Stoneware Salt Cellar

Take their cooking (and their countertops) to the next level with the handcrafted salt cellar.

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Fleur de Sel French Sea Salt
Williams Sonoma
Fleur de Sel French Sea Salt

For anyone who cooks anything, this will elevate their cooking game tenfold. Pair it with a gorgeous salt cellar for the ultimate combination.

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Blue Flower Phone Case
The Everygirl Shop
Blue Flower Phone Case

Your favorite coastal grandma wallpaper, now on the back of your phone. A little something for the giftee who always opts for a little touch of elegance wherever they go.

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Quilted Travel Pouch
Mark & Graham
Quilted Travel Pouch

If you want to gift something thoughtfu, but also something they can actually use, these quilt-patterned travel bags are perfect for any adventure that comes their way.

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Coastal Stoneware Mug
Pottery Barn
Coastal Stoneware Mug

This stunning stoneware mug makes every sip of coffee taste like mornings by the beach. It’s elegant, classic, and something we imagine Erica Barry sipping with at her Hamptons beach house.

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Heritage Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Flamingo Estate
Heritage Extra Virgin Olive Oil

You can’t go wrong with anything from Flamingo Estate, but their olive oil is a staple in my kitchen—and my go-to gift. It’s one of those presents people text you about later, wondering how they ever lived without it.

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Beginner Embroidery Kit
Etsy | DIY Order
Beginner Embroidery Kit

If you prefer to gift experiences, this embroidery project will give them a weekend of fun and a new hobby!

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Stoneware Dog Mug
Anthropologie
Stoneware Dog Mug

For the girl who can’t get enough of her pup, or definitely gives off golden retriever energy, this mug adds a charming, vintage touch to her morning coffee ritual.

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Market Tote
Williams Sonoma
Market Tote

Farmers market trips are essential for any Nancy Meyers main character. This staple bag will allow them to carry everything and more.

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The Wishbone Kitchen Cookbook
Amazon
The Wishbone Kitchen Cookbook

There’s no better book to gift a coastal grandma than our generation’s Martha Stewart cookbook—every recipe is an absolute must-make.

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Apres Beach Baseball Cap
The Everygirl Shop
Apres Beach Baseball Cap

If heading to the beach is her whole brand, this hat lets the world know exactly where her priorities are. The denim coloring makes it a perfect fit for any beachy linens or striped sweaters she might have in her closet, too.

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Beach Skin Body & Hair Mist
Phlur
Beach Skin Body & Hair Mist

This spray perfectly blends warm vanilla with crisp, beachy notes—so fresh and irresistible, you’ll want to spritz it all over.

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Small Raffia Clutch
Etsy | Handmade by Kargin
Small Raffia Clutch

The shape of this handmade clutch gives a natural elegance, adding a touch of coastal chic to any outfit.

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Parkside Flask
High Camp Flasks
Parkside Flask

Help her take her chardonnay anywhere with this portable flask that keeps drinks chilled up to 24 hours, holds a full bottle, and comes with two integrated tumblers for sipping. It’ll be her new BFF for beach days to campfires and beyond.

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Blue Bows Phone Case
The Everygirl Shop
Blue Bows Phone Case

The sweet bow detail on this phone case makes it an absolute grandmillennial dream—charming, feminine, and effortlessly stylish.

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Wool and Cashmere Triangle Scarf
Haven Well Within
Wool and Cashmere Triangle Scarf

Perfect for everyday wear or special occasions, this scarf adds a touch of luxury and sophistication to any look.

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Swan Brass Jewelry Dish
Catbird
Swan Brass Jewelry Dish

Add a touch of elegance to your space with this charming brass swan ring holder. Its whimsical design not only showcases your favorite rings but also serves as a beautiful decorative piece, making it a perfect blend of functionality and style.

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Pull-On PJ Pants
Gap Factory
Pull-On PJ Pants

Ideal for cozy mornings, lazy afternoons, or a restful night’s sleep, these PJ pants make a stylish and thoughtful gift for anyone who loves to relax in style.

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Plush Sunday Slipper
Bombas
Plush Sunday Slipper

Not all slippers are created equal, and this luxurious Bombas pair is evidence of that. They feel like the inside of your favorite sweatshirt and are the ultimate cozy little spoil for your feet.

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Scallop Shade Lamp
Birch Lane
Scallop Shade Lamp

Picture this charming little lamp adding a cozy glow to a bookshelf or brightening up a kitchen countertop.

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Chino Ball Cap
Ralph Lauren
Chino Ball Cap

This celeb-favorite cap is at the top of every quiet luxury wishlist. Take styling notes from J-Law who pairs the cap with sleek wardrobe basics from The Row, or Taylor Swift who styles it with a monochromatic look.

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Build Your Own Charm Necklace
Names for Good
Build Your Own Charm Necklace

The vintage, collected charm of this necklace adds subtle interest to any outfit. Customize it to reflect their passions for a truly thoughtful, one-of-a-kind gift.

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Stoneware Dog Mug
Anthropologie
Stoneware Dog Mug

There’s nothing I love more than my dog—second place goes to anything with their adorable little face on it. This mug says #1 Dog Mom in style, with a chic, elevated twist.

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Toile Duvet Set
Urban Outfitters
Toile Duvet Set

These gorgeous blue toile sheets perfectly capture the essence of the coastal grandma aesthetic—timeless, elegant, and effortlessly cozy. Soft, luxurious, and beautifully patterned, they transform any bedroom into a serene, inviting retreat that feels both classic and completely curated.

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Contour LED Face Mask
Omnilux
Contour LED Face Mask

I’ve become completely obsessed with my Omnilux mask this year. It’s one of the few self-care rituals I’ve stuck to because it’s just so easy to use. This spa-worthy treatment uses targeted LED light therapy to enhance your skin’s natural healing, calm inflammation, and stimulate collagen for a radiant, youthful glow.

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Elizabeth James Bridal Shop Print
Etsy | elliedawndesigns
Elizabeth James Bridal Shop Print

If the Parent Trap is part of her core personality, gift her this painting of the movie’s iconic bridal shop.

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Sherpa Loafers
Northend
Sherpa Loafers

Sherpa loafers are the chic, elevated house shoes she can slip on indoors—or wear out thanks to the durable tread. Comfort this good makes them an I-never-want-to-take-them-off kind of staple.

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Cotton Blend Mock-Neck Sweater
Haven Well Within
Cotton Blend Mock-Neck Sweater

This mock-neck sweater is the perfect layer for effortless warmth and style, all-season style—making it a thoughtful gift she’ll actually wear.

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Large Duffel Bag
Vera Bradley
Large Duffel Bag

This spacious duffel is made for the explorer who’s always looking for an adventure. Whether you’re jetting off to the East Coast or planning a small weekend getaway, this bag comes with ample room to get you where you want to go—in style.

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Seashore Shell Needlepoint Kit
Poppy Monk
Seashore Shell Needlepoint Kit

Create a little piece of coastal charm with this seashore needlepoint kit. A relaxing and rewarding project, it’s a thoughtful gift for anyone who loves crafting, beachy vibes, or handmade décor.

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READ: 15 Coastal Grandma Books That Feel Like You’re Living in a Nancy Meyers’ Movie

Packable Bucket Hat
Wyeth
Packable Bucket Hat

This Diane Keaton-approved bucket hat says “Hamptons” in all the best ways.

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Customizable Catch-all Tray
Mark & Graham
Customizable Catch-all Tray

A place for jewelry, lotions, or the seashells she finds on her morning walks at the beach, this customizable catch-all tray is the perfect trinket to add that thoughtful touch to her home.

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'The Holiday' Cottage Ornament
Etsy | elliedawndesigns
‘The Holiday’ Cottage Ornament

Straight from the Nancy Meyers movie and onto your tree, this beautiful acrylic ornament features a hand-drawn interpretation of the famous Holiday cottage. The perfect touch of cozy for your home.

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East Coast Print
Etsy | Poppy PNG
East Coast Print

If you’re searching for an affordable decor gift, grab this downloadable print from Etsy—then frame it in a vintage find or a simple light-wood frame from Target for a thoughtful, stylish touch.

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Seed Storage Organizer Binder
Amazon
Seed Storage Organizer Binder

Organize your gardening dreams with this practical seed storage book, designed to help you keep track of your favorite seeds and planting schedules.

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Knit Oversized Throw
Target | Casaluna
Knit Oversized Throw

This oversized knit throw can be placed at the end of the bed or used to lounge on the couch with a good book.

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Wooden Cookbook Holder
Target | Hearth & Hand™
Wooden Cookbook Holder

This wooden cookbook holder combines function with style, adding a stunning, Nancy Meyers–worthy touch to any kitchen counter.

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Fujifilm Instax Mini
Amazon
Fujifilm Instax Mini

Capture candid, sweet moments the old-fashioned way with the Instax Mini. Perfect for putting your phone aside, it instantly prints memories you’ll treasure and display for years to come.

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Scalloped Cake Stand
Magnolia
Scalloped Cake Stand

This beautiful cake stand is perfect for proudly showcasing their latest Ina-inspired creation in style.

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Cast Iron Dutch Oven
Target | Hearth & Hand with Magnolia
Cast Iron Dutch Oven

This Dutch oven is the ultimate kitchen workhorse—perfect for everything from soups to roasts, and built to last for years. While Le Creuset is iconic, this affordable alternative delivers the same classic look and timeless appeal.

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Slow Mornings Club Hat
Amazon
Slow Mornings Club Hat

This classic ball cap is the perfect weekend accessory—effortlessly stylish, comfortable, and ready to complete any casual outfit.

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READ: 15 Coastal Grandma-Inspired Destinations That Look Straight Out of a Nancy Meyers Movie

Hand-Painted Butter Dish
McGee & Co.
Hand-Painted Butter Dish

This hand-painted butter dish is a charming addition to any table, featuring delicate blue floral details that add a touch of sweetness and timeless elegance to everyday meals.

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Scottie Doorstop
Anthropologie
Scottie Doorstop

Add a personal touch to their home with this customized dog doorstop. Functional and charming, it’s a playful way to celebrate their furry friend while keeping doors propped in style.

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Full of Shit Tote Bag
The Everygirl Shop
Full of Shit Tote Bag

Cozy, casual, and durable, this tote bag is a playful yet stylish gift for any coastal grandma whose life is always in her bag. Perfect for housing books, snacks, Trader Joe’s florals, or all of it at once.

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Floral Ring Dish
Etsy | Leefla
Floral Ring Dish

This elegant dish is the perfect catch-all for small trinkets or everyday jewelry.

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Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle
Flamingo Estate
Roma Heirloom Tomato Candle

Whether she channels her inner-Nancy Meyers through gardening or romanticizing a homecooked meal, this charming, fan-favorite candle from Flamingo Estate will get her going. It’ll look stunning on her coffee table and will make her home smell like a balmy, summer night in the garden.

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Turn Lock Belt
Amazon
Turn Lock Belt

This classic leather belt with a sleek turn-lock closure adds a polished touch to any outfit. Its timeless design makes it the perfect versatile accessory for any wardrobe.

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Ribbed Taper Candles
Etsy | Cai Cai Handmade
Ribbed Taper Candles

Fluted candles are a gorgeous addition to any room and a perfect gift for anyone who loves to host.

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Cashmere Oversized Cardigan
Quince
Cashmere Oversized Cardigan

Embrace the main character “I just threw this on!” energy with a timeless Cape Cod inspired knit.

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Go-To Dinners: A Barefoot Contessa Cookbook
Amazon | Ina Garten
Go-To Dinners: A Barefoot Contessa Cookbook

You can’t deny it: Ina is the ultimate coastal grandmother. This book offers a collection of effortless, delicious recipes designed to make everyday meals stress-free. From comforting classics to elegant dishes, this Barefoot Contessa cookbook is filled with tips and tricks that make cooking a breeze.

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Chinoiserie Painted Taper Candles
Chefanie
Chinoiserie Painted Taper Candles

Arrange these hand painted tapers on the table alongside a variety of candle holders for a beautifully curated tablescape.

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Locket Necklace
Etsy | Caitlyn Minimalist
Locket Necklace

This timeless locket necklace adds a personal, sentimental touch to any outfit. Perfect for keeping a cherished memory close, its classic design makes it a beautiful accessory that’s both elegant and meaningful.

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Floral Subscription
BOUQS
Floral Subscription

Give the gift that keeps on giving with this floral arrangement subscription.

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Blue Oxford Shirt
AYR
Blue Oxford Shirt

No coastal mood board is complete without a tried-and-true button-down. This classy, blue-hued pick is the do-all piece for your closet that can be dressed up or down depending on the occasion.

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Waterproof Picnic Blanket
Amazon
Waterproof Picnic Blanket

Help your coastal grandma embrace the slow life with this easily packable and waterproof picnic blanket.

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Hanukkah Toile Platter
Etsy | Mayfly and Junebug
Hanukkah Toile Platter

Celebrate the season with this beautiful blue and white toile Hanukkah custom nameplate. Adorned with classic patterns, it adds a personal touch to your holiday decor, making it the perfect centerpiece for gatherings or a thoughtful gift for loved ones.

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Striped Phone Case
The Everygirl Shop
Striped Phone Case

Every coastal grandma needs that little touch of blue in their life. This sky-blue, Nancy Myers-inspired phone case is the perfect companion for their everyday.

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Allyson Trammell is the Editor-in-Chief of The Everygirl, where she oversees the creative direction and editorial content. She has worked at The Everygirl for over ten years and is passionate about empowering women in all aspects of their lives. With an extensive background in lifestyle journalism and a love for storytelling, she curates inspiring, inclusive, and relatable content for readers.