Zodiac

How You Fall in Love, Based on Your Zodiac Sign

written by JENNA PIOTROWICZ
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Source:Dupe Photos | Paisley Alford
Source:Dupe Photos | Paisley Alford

Love can be messy, magical, and often unpredictable. It’s complicated, and it hits everyone differently. Sometimes it’s chaotic and fast, other times it’s quiet and slow. And most often, it feels like we have no control over when it happens or who it happens with. I find myself experiencing déjà vu in a lot of relationship situations, and wonder why I keep connecting with extremely similar partners (keep me away from the Pisces men). From spicy flings to soulmate connections, each sign has its way of loving and building relationships.

Ahead, we’ll dive into how each zodiac sign falls in love—what draws them in, what makes them stay, and how they show up when their heart’s on the line. So if you’ve ever wondered why you fall the way you do, or why that one person drives you totally crazy, maybe the stars have some answers.

Aries

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It’s probably no surprise that Aries are drawn to excitement in relationships. They fall quickly and passionately, with sparks flying everywhere. They aren’t afraid to speak out about how they feel and are often the ones to initiate the relationships in their lives. Although they don’t always think about what they get in return, they are incredibly affectionate in relationships. As a fire sign, they’re highly energetic, so once they’re in a relationship, they crave physical intimacy and adventures and love the chase. Without this sense of excitement, Aries might lose focus and interest in their partner.

Taurus

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As an earth sign, Taurus relationships occur slowly but surely. They account for all the details and expect a stable, mature relationship. A sense of home and comfort is everything to them, so patience is key to winning a Taurus’ heart in the long run. By building an unshakeable foundation of trust one day at a time, a deep bond will form. When a Taurus finds the one, they’re all in, ready to commit and start a life together with their partner. As an earth sign, they value loyalty and practicality, so if these needs aren’t met, a Taurus will find themselves extremely frustrated with their relationship.

Gemini

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A Gemini falls in love through words. For them, communication is everything and is just as important as physical intimacy. This air sign looks for a partner who can match their flirtatious energy, which can sometimes lead to superficial bonds. With their quick-witted nature, Geminis might seem like they are always changing directions and leaving others behind. But once a Gemini finds someone who can keep up with them, communicate, and love them wholeheartedly, they will treasure their partner deeply. A strong foundation is what will keep a Gemini relationship strong to the end.

Cancer

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For this water sign, emotions and feelings are everything. Since physical intimacy is not as important as an emotional connection to them, Cancers often become completely enamored with quiet intimacy. They search for partners who connect with them on a deep level, one where words aren’t even needed to express their love. This emotional intelligence is the basis of any long-term relationship for a Cancer. Sometimes loyal to a fault, Cancers might find themselves easily giving in to their partner’s suggestions, which the wrong person could take advantage of. Their willingness to compromise is not something to be taken for granted but rather met with a similar attitude. Once a Cancer finds someone with a deep understanding of their emotions, they are set for the long run.

Leo

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Fiery Leos find themselves smitten with a person’s confidence. For them, a personality who’s willing to match their own keeps the relationship on equal footing. Leos also look for partners with strong intellect and the ability to bring their deepest feelings to the surface. Once a Leo finds a partner with whom they can be vulnerable, they are incredibly loyal and generous with their love. As natural-born leaders, Leos are best matched with partners who are confident in their individuality and independence. In this kind of strong relationship, they’ll fight tooth and nail for their love, sometimes to the bitter end.

Virgo

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Known as a practical and analytical sign, Virgos can’t even consider the idea of falling in love without the promise of commitment. Virgos are not the type of people to have meaningless relationships. They lead with their head, not their heart, so a long-term relationship is the only way a Virgo will find themselves opening up to a partner. After finding stability, Virgos express their love through intimacy and action rather than words. This earth sign’s logical mind is best matched to a dedicated partner who is willing to work through any problem.

Libra

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For Libras, companionship is everything. But this air sign doesn’t just want commitment—they also want passion and balance in a relationship. Libras love love, and they’ll catch feelings for someone who similarly makes their romantic relationships a priority. When love finds them, Libras are willing to share every aspect of their life with their partner. This type of complete surrender is what a Libra yearns for, but they sometimes lose their independence in the process. A Libra’s partner must be ready to place boundaries that keep the relationship strong but not entirely dependent on one another.

Scorpio

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Scorpios are known for being a sign of intense, body-and-soul bonding in relationships. They fall deeply in love with passionate physical and emotional connections. This water sign craves nothing short of complete infatuation, and their sensitivity makes it challenging to find someone to trust with these important emotions. When a Scorpio finds a partner who is honest and willing to accept them completely, they are extremely loyal in their relationship. However, this infatuation can sometimes turn obsessive and lead to intense jealousy, making trust a key factor in the success of a Scorpio’s relationship.

Sagittarius

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Sagittariuses find their heart beating a little faster over adventurous souls. As one of the most curious and adaptable signs, they often search for a partner who matches their zest for life and exploration. With such a loving and passionate personality, Sags have a hard time establishing boundaries between platonic and romantic relationships. They see the best in everyone and must be self-aware of this to find a truly meaningful relationship. However, once they do, they are happy to express their thoughts and engage in deep intellectual conversations with their partner. An open mind and excitement for new things are essential in a Sagittarius relationship.

Capricorn

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Capricorns are known to be a complicated sign when it comes to love. Due to their stubbornness, it might seem nearly impossible to break down a Capricorn’s walls. But the key to unlocking this earth sign’s heart and making them fall in love is through consistency. After time and dedication, a Capricorn will reveal their emotions to their partner once they feel completely secure in the relationship. They are extremely goal-oriented, and they want growth for both partners. When a Capricorn lets down that tough exterior, they are ready to commit to someone for the rest of their lives.

Aquarius

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Aquariuses becomes entranced by a person’s mind. They have a deep affinity for intellectual people and engaging conversations. This air sign is known for its independence, and they need a partner who is also confident in their own right. If their partner is too dependent, an Aquarius might feel like their freedom is being taken from them. Once Aquariuses find their lucky one, they value open and honest communication to build a strong, lasting foundation. But if this trust is broken, an Aquarius has no problem moving forward and leaving the relationship behind.

Pisces

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Pisces are hopeless romantics at heart. They fall in love with a whirlwind romance, no matter how cliché. As a water sign, they are incredibly compassionate and willing to sacrifice their morals for love, which can often lead to bad outcomes. Pisces are known to be overly trusting and need a partner who won’t take advantage of that. Once they find a connection that goes deeper than the honeymoon phase, they find themselves ready for total commitment and will prioritize their partner’s happiness.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Jenna Piotrowicz, Editorial Assistant

Jenna began working as an Editorial Assistant for The Everygirl in 2024. With her eye for detail, she assists the team with content creation, sourcing products and images, and works behind the scenes to support The Everygirl in uploading and updating content.