20+ Gifts to Give Your Loved Ones for the Sexiest Valentine’s Day Ever

The gift-giving doesn’t stop just because December comes and goes. Valentine’s Day is as commercial as Christmas, if not more. The stores are filled with red and pink, hearts, candy, and so. much. lingerie. And we’re definitely not against it! In our minds? The sexier the gift, the better. If there’s anything your partner or friends are going to “ooh” and “ahh” over, it’s gonna be sex toys, lingerie, and the like. We don’t blame them!

But how exactly do you give a sex-related gift without it being weird? Instead of buying your partner those courtside seats or your best friend a new lipstick, we’ve got some sexier options to make the absolute most of the month of love. Also, we didn’t forget about you either—it’s all self-love, baby.


For your significant other…

Honeydew Intimates

Tatiana Garter Belt

A classic black garter belt can take all of your bra and panty sets to the next level.


Vesper Vibrator Necklace

What better way to perk up your partner than by wearing a vibrator necklace to dinner? All I'm gonna say is H-O-T.

Urban Outfitters

Position of the Day Playbook

Sex life getting a little stale with your partner? Up the ante with 366 new positions to try—yes, they did accommodate for Leap Year, and I am thrilled. Why would you skip a position on Feb. 29?

Urban Outfitters

B Swish BFilled Classic

This vibrating plug is truly a partner toy. It can be used vaginally or anally, for males or females, and comes with a remote to control the speed and intensity. That Valentine's dinner out just got interesting.


Luna Beads Kegel Balls

Use these as kegel balls to strengthen the vagina, or use them with a partner for pleasure. The possibilities are endless.

Urban Outfitters

Spirits Sex Board Game

I audibly gasped in the Everygirl office when I saw this on Urban Outfitters. "The spirits want you to have sex"???? Tell me that isn't the best thing you've ever seen. I'm not a ghost whisperer or anything, but I have a feeling "not right now" won't come out.


Teddy Lingerie Bodysuit

I consulted with a male source, and he said the hottest color of lingerie is red. You heard it here first, folks. I'm not saying you have to do a single damn thing a man wants, but red is hot. I don't make the rules.

Side note: I own this very bodysuit, and it is AMAZING. The quality is very good considering the price, and the lace is soft and comfortable. Would recommend to all my friends AKA anyone reading this.

Urban Outfitters

Womanizer Liberty

This chic clitoral vibrator is a little more on the expensive side, making it the perfect gift for you and your partner to enjoy. It boasts six intensities, vibrates and suctions, and is waterproof.


For your BFF…


The Sex Issue

Hello to all my BFFs reading this because I would like this. Imagine me, a sex writer/connoisseur, with a sex coffee table book? The power.

Urban Outfitters

Gaia Biodegradable Eco Bullet

This is one of the cheapest vibrators on the market, but don't let that fool you—this little guy is perfect for first-timers, to use with partners, or to add in with other toys. Tell your Earth-loving BFF to recycle this vibrator when she's ready to move on!


The Sex Gel

Sexy, minimalist, aesthetic lube is everything we're dreaming of this V-Day. Your BFF will go all "OMG, you get me."


Missguided Satin Cami Robe and Slip Set

A night in with your best girlfriends calls for comfy clothes, so why not get them something you can all feel a little sexy in?


Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

This is quite possibly one of the best things I tried in 2019, and what better way to show your best friend you love her than by giving her multiple orgasms?! This vibrator is truly out of this world.

Urban Outfitters

Iroha Stick Vibrator

If your friend wants something discreet, this one looks like a lipstick in your nightstand. I would also gift this to my jetsetter girlfriends, because no one would second-guess anything if you had this in your carry-on. "Where can I get that lipstick? It's so chic!"

Moon Juice

Sex Dust

What else would you give your wellness guru friend for Valentine's Day? This adaptogen blend goes in smoothies, tea, or coffee to make you feel calmer and more creative. 😉


For yourself…


Pixie Clitoris Vibrator

This affordable 10-speed vibrator is meant for the clitoris, meaning it's perfect for a little alone time. It's also extra quiet (we understand you @Everygirls with roommates) and compact for travel.


7-Inch Vibrator

Orgasms for less than your lunch salad? Yes, please.

This is a classic vibrator everyone should try at least once. If you've never tried a sex toy before, we'd recommend starting with something like this.


Flocked Heart Mesh Slip Dress

You don't need a partner to look hot AF on V-Day, ladies. Honestly, it might be more fun to dress up yourself, order a heart-shaped pizza, and watch reruns of KUWTK.


Satisfyer Pro Clitoral Suction Vibrator

If the wand vibrator was the vibe of the '90s, this will be it for the 2010s and '20s. This is the vibrator I tell all of my friends about, and if you buy anything on this list, make it this. I feel passionately that your life will not be the same.

Urban Outfitters

B Swish BThrilled Classic

The classic '90s wand vibrator gets an upgrade with this guy. These vibes are known for being very, very intense. Have fun!!!