"By now, the idea of romanticizing your life isn’t new. The concept has been circulating the internet for years now as people seek out ways to spice up what might otherwise be mundane aspects of their daily lives. From starting off your morning with the latest it-girl wellness routine to channeling your inner coastal grandmother with trips to the farmers market, there are so many ways to romanticize your life in any season. However, it’s easy to feel like you need to swipe your credit card every time you want to add a little romance to your day. Those daily “little treats” and pricey wellness product hauls can add up quickly, but you don’t actually need to spend a dime to add some sparkle to your everyday routine. Here are 20 completely free ways to romanticize your life this summer:
1. Curate specific playlists for your daily routine
A great soundtrack can elevate even the most boring aspects of your routine. Make one for your commute that makes you feel like the main character in a rom-com, or curate a few based on different moods that you can pop on whenever the feeling strikes. Then get creative with the playlist titles so they feel super specific to you.
2. Use the nice thing you’ve been saving
Whether that’s a fancy beauty product that feels almost too luxurious to use or a bottle of champagne you’ve been saving for a special occasion, there’s no time like the present to crack it open and enjoy. You don’t need any excuse to indulge other than celebrating simply being alive.
3. Make your own personal recipe book
Despite having tons of recipes saved across Pinterest and Instagram, I still end up making the same few things for dinners every week. If you too want to spice up your regular meal rotation, take the time this summer to write down those recipes and combine them in your own personal recipe book. Include your favorite childhood recipes, any go-tos that you make regularly, plus all the new ones you’ve been meaning to try.
4. Host friends for dinner
What better way to show off your recipes than by inviting some friends over for dinner? You don’t need to get fancy with themed decorations or outfits—just spend the evening enjoying some good food and conversation.
5. Rearrange your furniture
The urge to completely change up your decor every time the seasons change might be strong, but that’s not exactly great for your budget or Mother Nature. Instead, spend an afternoon shopping around your home and rearranging what you already have. Move your sofa or bed to a different side of the room, rearrange how your bookshelf is organized, or swap accessories like throw pillows or wall art between rooms.
6. Join a run club
Running clubs have taken over TikTok for a reason! Most are free to join and offer a great way to get some cardio in while exploring your local area. Plus, having a group to go with gives you that much more incentive to make running a habit.
7. Draw an extravagant bath
Not counting the cost of any products you use, taking a bath is a totally free way to add some romance to your everyday. Drop in a bath bomb, grab an over-the-top beverage, and dive into a good book while you take your time and relax.
8. Dance just because
Busting out some moves just because is a surefire way to boost your mood and make you feel like you’re starring in a coming-of-age movie. Put on your favorite song, grab a hairbrush (or your choice of microphone), and have a solo dance karaoke party just because you can.
9. Write a letter and send it in the mail
Nothing says romanticizing your life quite like sitting down and putting pen to paper. Surprise a friend, relative, or significant other with a heartfelt or witty note in their mailbox. It won’t cost you more than the price of a stamp!
10. Upgrade your morning or nighttime routine
You don’t need a whole arsenal of expensive beauty products to romanticize your morning or nighttime routine. Start your morning with a walk or journaling session, then wrap up the day by stretching, meditating, or DIYing a lymphatic drainage massage. There are tons of simple self-care practices that feel high-maintenance but are actually completely free.
11. Go on a solo walk
Walks are a great opportunity to enjoy the summer weather and spend some quality time with yourself. Add walks to your slow morning routine, break up your WFH day with a loop around the neighborhood, or listen to an audiobook on an evening stroll and remind yourself of the things you’re grateful for.
12. Manifest
Speaking of remembering the things you’re grateful for, manifestation is one of the best ways to romanticize your life, and it doesn’t cost a thing. Whether you want to make gains in your career, develop healthier habits, or meet your ideal partner, spend some time daydreaming about your dream life, then make a list of the things you want and will achieve.
13. Make a new Pinterest board
Pinterest was the OG way to start romanticizing your life, so I would be remiss not to include it in this list. Whether you’re planning your future wedding, dreaming up your first big girl apartment without roommates, or mapping out your travel bucket list, making a new vision board is essential this summer.
14. Take pictures of random beautiful things
It’s so easy to get caught up in your routine and not notice all of the beautiful things around you every day. So, the next time you see something that catches your eye—whether that be a colorful sunset, a bunch of pretty flowers, or some cool architecture—take a few moments to appreciate the view and snap a picture.
15. Be a tourist in your own city
Instead of wishing you were vacationing somewhere else, embrace your everyday life and enjoy what your hometown has to offer. Explore new neighborhoods you haven’t yet visited, seek out local markets or festivals, visit some of the attractions your city is known for, or simply people-watch somewhere with a good view.
16. Read a book
Whether it’s a lighthearted beach read or a thriller that will keep you on the edge of your seat, spend some time this summer getting lost in another world.
17. Turn your phone on do-not-disturb
It’s easy to feel like you need to romanticize your life because your day-to-day pales in comparison to what you see on social media. If you’re tired of playing the comparison game, try unplugging and taking a phone break for the weekend. Bonus points if you try out some of the other ideas on this list during your digital detox.
18. Bake something from scratch
You definitely don’t need an excuse to treat yourself to something sweet, and baking something from scratch is the perfect way to romanticize a random afternoon or evening. Take a look at what you already have in your fridge or pantry and see what you can make using those ingredients. Keep the whole batch for yourself, or share your creation with friends or neighbors.
19. Get dressed up
If you, like me, used to dress up in frilly princess dresses as a kid, you know that dressing up as an adult is just as fun. So whether that means putting on real clothes to WFH instead of your PJs or wearing that cute top you’ve been saving to go out on the weekend, take your time getting dressed in something that makes you feel beautiful. Then, remember to look in the mirror and take a moment to appreciate how great you look.
20. Talk to strangers
Striking up a convo with someone in line at your local coffee shop or with the cutie at the bar is the definition of main character energy. Even if they don’t end up being your new bestie or next date, it’s still fun to learn something new about someone you don’t talk to every day! Of course, just make sure you’re not putting yourself in an unsafe situation.
